Music saves my life

Feeling like you're going slightly mad when looking after two children under the age of 3 is probably a very common state of mind for many a mother. The intensity of emotion that comes with having two small human beings swinging from my limbs is something I could never have imagined prior to landing on planet motherhood.
In the olden days, as a single gal about town, time to myself would be classified as a weekend away with girlfriends at a luxury spa. Nowadays, I get the same sense of satisfaction if I manage to go to the toilet on my own, without a child wanting to sit on my lap.
The most challenging time in my day has to be from about 5pm when little tummies are hungry, bodies are smeared with all manner of dirt and everyone is tired and tetchy. Books call this time the "witching hour".
As I'm a bit hit or miss in the cooking organisation department, I tend not to have a "here's one I made earlier" dinner dish*, so I end up scurrying around the kitchen, wailing baby on hip, trying to gather something together that resembles a reasonably healthy meal...or at least a meal that won't give the children scurvy.
Once I've successfully cooked, fed, cleaned up, ran bath, undressed children, put children in bath, got soaked, put self in bath with children, washed, taken children and self out of bath, dried, found pyjamas, mopped up wee from floor, held down struggling baby whilst putting on nappy, argued about what pyjamas 3 year old wants to wear, given in, put own pyjamas onto 3 year old finally, finally, finally I carry clean, happy and relatively peaceful children in to the sitting room.
Now It's time. It's time for a boogie. It's time to put on the stereo really loudly. It's time to listen to some "illicit language" rap music. It's time to shake. Shake it out. Shake that booty. Shake it round. Shake it fast. Shake it like there's no tomorrow. Shake it like you cannot wait for another 5pm witching hour. Shake it hard. Shake it and watch your children watching you like you are the queen of shaking it, before joining in. Suddenly you have a shaking party, you're all going wild, hair's all over the place, you're all singing, laughing, shaking it, really going for it and dancing around the entire sitting room. The heat rises, you open the balcony door and continue the shaking right beside the open window. The music stops. You look down. You're naked. You forgot to put on your pyjamas after the bath. This is a recurring theme.
Whatever. Music saves my life.


*When I do have a "here's one I made earlier" dinner dish I feel smug as f***

Bicycle

For Christmas I received a beautiful bicycle. It is a work of art in fact, and I could look at it for hours. The best thing about it is the shopping basket attached to the front, and I also like that it looks retro but not in a wanky way; it doesn't scream "I'm a cool retro bike" rather it oozes a natural confidence. It's ever so slightly glamorous.
My first and only outing went well. I cruised along figuring out local bicycle etiquette, and felt a little smug tinkling my bell to let pedestrians know they should move out of my way on the cycle path. The only problem I encounted was my outfit. As I dashed out of the house leaving tetchy, tired babies with their father I didn't have time to consider what one should wear on a casual bike ride. It was a hot day, I happened to be wearing the world's shortest mini skirt and flimsy tank top. I realised this was a mistake the minute I swung my leg of the cross bar. Not only were my knickers on display the entire time, but my flimsy summer top didn't do much to cover my bra. I managed to tie a knot in my shirt to help the situation up top, but the mini skirt was a lost cause. Luckily this is Australia, bodies are everywhere. I've seen people in their bikinis waiting in doctors surgeries.
Lesson learnt.
I do love my bike.

The New Year

I'm feeling the pressure of New Years. I spiralled into a vacuum of self doubt after innocently being asked what my new years resolution was.

It's January the 4th, and for the first 3 days of this month my partner and I argued continuously. In an act of rebellion I demolished the rest of the (large) bag of crisps from the New Years Eve party. Scandalous. I whined at my children, I cleaned obsessively and then I stopped and panicked. I panicked about my future. Oh, that old chestnut! That intangible, unavoidable, unpredictable concept that has haunted me since the day I was born. Where will I live? What career will I choose? How will I have a career AND take my children to and from school/activities/friend's houses? Will I become a resentful middle aged woman who never "achieved" anything? Will I ever speak fluent Spanish? Will I ever get my pre-baby body back? I've not yet hit middle age, the breakdown isn't due yet. I need to wake up and smell the roses before this hole of self obsession sucks me deeper.

So, after a breath of fresh air and an R&B dance around the sitting room I shook off the negativity and called a friend who knows how to get stuff done. She reassuringly said it was pretty normal to feel unfocused and under confident after taking so many years out of the work force to raise children. I'm ready for my 5 year plan and I think she might be just the ticket to get me back on track.